This is exactly why I never wanted anything to do with this, or with you. Complete and utter fucking bullshit. 

It’s ridiculous to blame me for someone else’s actions toward themselves. Even more ridiculous when I’ve actually had conversations with Victoria trying to help and relate to her, despite the issues between us. Plus, I’ve actually never done anything to her other than ask her to leave me alone. 

I’ve self harmed before, it’s no one’s fault. It’s a coping response that someone chooses to do once and then gets addicted to. It’s honestly pathetic to blame other people for it. 

Actually, I don’t. Look I’m very strong in my opinions. I don’t need everyone else to agree, but I do expect people to respect how I see things and not try to fight me on it all the time (healthy discussion is fine, bitching is not). If people disagree with me, good for them. It would be freakishly abnormal if everyone thought the same.

My dad had an affair. It hurt everyone in my family and ruined his marriage. It was selfish, and he wasn’t the only one who suffered because of his decision. I’ve been cheated on also, and it’s the worst feeling in the world. Personally, I would be incapable of going through with something that I find so repulsive and wrong, especially because I know first hand how much it can screw up a persons ability to trust and love. It’s not that hard to walk away from a relationship if you’re unhappy or want something different. It’s fucked up to stick around and play games with someone’s emotions while you’re screwing around with someone else. 

Honestly, I don’t care if you call me judgmental. This is real life, you get judged for the shit you do. If you did it, you have to deal with the consequences of other people knowing about it. If you don’t want to be judged for it, don’t do it. Pretty simple. 

 Yes, we have been together a long time, and I could answer your question…

kthxbye :)